Getting a girl to squirt can be tricky. This is one of the most erotic things that some bodies do, but it can also be embarrassing and dirty. There are steps that you can both take, regardless of your feelings about squirting.
First, you need to make sure that the room is comfortable for you and your partner. You may want to consider a new mattress protector, pillow, or sex blanket to lay down. If you expect gushers, it is possible to purchase additional sheets. You can use a water-based lube, which can make the vaginal area more enticing and increase the intensity of your orgasm. To increase blood flow to your clitoris, you can use a female stimulant gel. If you are planning to use a water-based lube, you may want to buy a condom as well.
Next, you need to stimulate the G Spot, which is located in the vagina. You can do this by using your fingers to run them along the vagina's top wall. You will want to apply plenty of pressure to the G Spot by curling your fingers. To increase your orgasm's intensity, you can use a sextoy.
If you use a sex toy, you may need to adjust the angle of your fingers to ensure that your partner's vagina is properly aligned with yours. By moving your fingers upward and downward, you can experiment with different pressure levels. Push-the-button techniques involve repeatedly pressing the G Spot. To increase stimulation, you can use your middle and rings fingers to make a call.
Next, you need to make sure that you are relaxed. If a woman feels pressure in her bladder, she may be less inclined to squirt. This can cause her discomfort. Your partner should understand why you feel this pressure. If your partner feels uncomfortable, she may stop squirting or stop using her fingers.
You will need to explore your body and your partner's body in order to figure out what feels best. It is possible to try different methods or just masturbating by yourself to find what feels best. You shouldn't force your partner into doing anything. This will allow you to provide the best stimulation possible for your partner.
If you're planning on using a sex toy, make sure you talk to your girlfriend ahead of time about what she wants. Some women may prefer a rigid sex toy, which will provide more intense stimulation. Some women may choose a more flexible toy that allows you to feel the vaginal canal. You can also use a water-based lube, such as a condom, to intensify your orgasm.
You may also want to use female arousal gel, which will encourage blood flow to the clitoris and the vulva. Some vulva owners may find that the gel is too intense, so you can try a mild all-natural version.